I have women problems can you help?

I am a married 23 year old man I have 1 son my wife filed for divorce because I was messing around with another women she knew about. My wife also filed a restraining order against me because I called CPS on her. We still love each other and makeout sometimes. I told the other women I want my wife back but it is hard because I hate hurting both of these womens feelings. I did very selfish things I know but I want these women to be happy and I want to try to be happy I don't know what to do I need help with this situation. The women who I was seeing told me she tried to saboutage things with my wife when I told her I wanted to work things out my wife wants to trust me again. What should I do should I accept my wife back accept the other women or just be on my merry way? Thanks in advance for the help. By the way please no your a loser or mean spirted answers just answer the question straightforward thank you