What should i do? who should i choose? IM SOO CONFUSED! i luv them both but only 1 could stay.='( please help!?

Sounds like he wants you to be broken because he is. Go to school, get an education and listen to your family on this. I have been there before. He does not love you if he cheated on you twice in the beginning of your relationship (give me a break). How do you feel when you are with the old (always crying and etc.) how do you feel with the new (happy). In relationships you will shed some tears but you don't need an individual that will make you shed tears constantly and on the regular. If you are in a relationship with one from a broken home that just may be how your home will turn out in the future (not for everybody, but some who refuse to make things different from their current situations). G.L.